From the Interns: Learning to Care with CARE

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I can start by saying the word we've all feared: “period.”

Periods have long been considered taboo and “disgusting” in the eyes of society, and this perception has affected how people who experience them feel about themselves.
During my time volunteering with the Cycle Alliance for Reproductive Equity (CARE), I’ve had the opportunity to reframe the word “period.” It has become more than a “gross” word—it’s now a moment of reflection, truth, and accessibility.

This idea first took root when the library began providing tools and access to free menstrual products. Teenage boys would play with the tampons and pads, and the products were often found scattered like decorations around the library floor—tampon nun chucks and pad wall stickers. This behavior created a moment among youths that fostered shame, embarrassment, and confusion. It’s easy to imagine young girls like me feeling lost about this bodily process, with few people to turn to during such a sensitive time.

The CARE program has transformed what was once confusing into a moment of truth, impact, and love. It offers not only access to physical products but also a chance to connect with a team of people who genuinely care during a time of need.

I wish this program had been available when I needed it. Though I had many sisters, the topic was no less embarrassing. Instead of support, I was told, “Grab a pad and join the club—you’re not going to die.” That response led me down a path of independence, isolation, and reluctance to talk about this process during a time that couldn’t have been more confusing.

CARE offers a lifeline to those navigating this experience alone—those seeking community, support, and knowledge about how their bodies function. The program represents the open arms of “care,” providing both conventional and alternative methods for addressing our bodies in healthy ways.

Being an intern has allowed me to be one of the outstretched hands for those trying to navigate this taboo topic and rise above the shame society has placed on them. It’s a privilege to offer help and support to those who, like me, lacked knowledge and guidance.
Learning how to provide both physical and emotional support through this program has been not only a privilege but also a full-circle moment.

The little girl in me would be proud to say: “period.”

 

This blog post reflects the opinions of the author and does not necessarily represent the views of Brooklyn Public Library.

 



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